In Dr. Martin Luther Kings, The Drum Major Instinct Sermon he speaks about serving. He warns his congregation against the desire for importance, which can lead to snobbish exclusivism.
I believe that inside of us all is a desire to belong, lead, be seen, and important.
This isn’t a new concept. It’s been around for a long time, and it’s been studied by some of the most brilliant minds in history.
The idea is this: In the continuing struggle for security, the person is impelled to conquer current reality in an effort to secure a better future.
This impulse toward upward development can be good if we use it properly. And that’s what I want to talk about today.
When you get praise or recognition, it feels good! It’s instinctive to desire recognition—especially when it comes from someone you respect. This is because we’re wired to want to be the first in high principles and values. We want to be authentic and connect with others on a deeper level.